Why Chaos & Alani Exists

Chaos & Alani isn’t just a brand. It’s a lifeline for moms who are tired of running on empty, juggling everyone else’s needs, and still feeling like they’re falling short.

Here, you’ll find simple tools, sanity savers, and a whole lot of real talk to help you breathe again. Because this isn’t about perfection — it’s about permission. Permission to rest. Permission to ask for help. Permission to not carry it all alone.

A Little About Me

Hey mama, I’m Kristy — mom of 4, volleyball coach, wife, and yes… the queen of crying in the shower when it all feels like too much. I’ve done the late-night laundry marathons, the “what’s for dinner?” panic, the mom guilt, and the quiet resentment when no one seems to notice how much I do.

I started Chaos & Alani not because I had it all figured out, but because I didn’t. I needed a way to get out of the constant overwhelm — and I figured maybe you do too.

Why I Started This

One day I realized I was carrying everything… and it was crushing me. I wasn’t showing up as the mom or wife I wanted to be. I was snappy, exhausted, and completely overstimulated.

That’s when I started building tiny sanity savers — stress resets, daily planners, meal systems, chore charts, and scripts that made asking for help less awkward. And slowly, I felt lighter. The chaos didn’t disappear, but I finally had a system to handle it.

And if it worked for me, it can work for you too.